A special post...!!!!

Around February 1988....
The first breath of my life...
The first heart beat of my life...
The first cell was formed in me...
21st November 1988.....
The first moment in this world....
My first step in this world in the arms of my parents...!!!

I owe everything that I am and I would ever be to my loving parents and my family.
Had it not been for them,some principles would have never been instilled in me.
I am so grateful to God to have bestowed me with the "writing" skills of my father and the morals of my mother.

A friend once told me - "Disha,I envy your future kid.He would have some amazing genes from you".

I give the credit to my parents for that. :)

This post is dedicated to my family,friends,some strangers and some other "people" who have helped me grow,be a better person and be "humane"....

My parents,my mom and dad know me 9 months more than the other people so they are the most special people in this world for me.... :)

I have a friend who I know since the fourth standard.I somehow always used to borrow an "eraser" from her and she never ever refused it.She has taught me the value of "help".An eraser is not a big thing to lend but it surely reflected her nature.Every other classmate of mine was not so helpful to me!:)

2004...
I met my best friend.
The friend who refused to "like" my page on facebook just because she despises whatever I write.
She is the one who left me all alone when I was 15 and told me that she could not drop me home.She asked me to hire an autorickshaw.
She is no doubt my best friend,but I cannot rely on her.
I've learned to be "reliable" from her and not be so selfish.

I met one of my other best friends who taught me the same!:)
I love both of them a lot despite our differences and despite the fact that both of them don't care what I write....

2006...
The era of ORKUT!:)

I met 3 awesome people through this place.
And the best part is all of them are like FAMILY...
I know their family and it certainly means a lot. :)
Actually they are a lot more than "just friends".
Two of them are my brothers and one of them is the best guy I have come across.
He is the BEST GUY I will ever see in my life and he is "THE BEST FRIEND" I could ever have.
He doesn't lie.He doesn't cheat.He doesn't play with feelings.
He is the one I can trust with closed eyes even when he is miles apart.
The other two are my brothers.
And ... now I even have a bhabhi with a nephew.
They are the most awesome people in my life and who have never ever walked away.
I talk to them even after 8 months and things are the same.
No distance-no ego-no hidden truths and no lies!!!!!:)

2007...
I met my best friend among guys...
It has been 5 years and we are still best of friends... :)

2008-2009...
The BLOGGER friends...

Two of my friends-Amazing writers that they are! :)

I always fancy the fans and followers on their blog.

I have written about both of them in the post of special people of 2011 on my website.You can read about them here--- "To the very very special people of 2011".

They are not just "blogger friends" anymore.They are a lot more than they think they are!:)

2010...

I met this guy through a friend.
He deleted me from "facebook" friendlist because of a stupid tiff.
I have learned not to befriend people who are so impulsive and would never stand by you.
In the same year,another friend of mine faced a similar situation.
It made me realize that the relationships which seem perfect from a distance are usually not that way when seen with a closer vision.

2011...

I have already talked about this in the post on my website!:)

2012...

I have concluded that there are some things I can never change, some girls he will never ignore and someone I will never ever have whatever I do or whatever he tells me!:)
I am going to be just another girl for HIM forever,nothing more than that!:)

I'm thankful to everyone mentioned above who taught me how to be and how not to be!:)

SCARED of feeling.... SCARED of falling IN LOVE... !!!!!!

A "chat" conversation between a guy and a girl....

Disclaimer : Fiction if you THINK, Real if you FEEL! :)

Guy :- "D"
Girl :- "A"

Before you proceed, read the posts "Love and me" and "Let love come to you" TO UNDERSTAND this post better! :)
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D :- For whom is this post "Love and me"?????????
A :- Just a random post, D.... It is not for anyone...
D :- Who do you think you are kidding,A? Your best friend???
A :- YES! :) 
D :- Oh come on.. just tell me who is the ONE?
A :- Okay first you tell me for whom is this post "Let love come to you"  ??? Who should come and seek you?
D :- It is just a spontaneous thought, A... I did not have anyone particular in my mind at that time..
A :- Same here! :) Even my posts are all fictional! :)
D :- Don't lie ... not atleast to me! I know all your posts are real and non-fiction.I don't know about others but I definitely ignore all your disclaimers which say "FICTIONAL" 'cause I know the stories behind all of them. Do you think I don't know who your characters in real life are??? HAHAHAHA ...You've a big misconception if you think I buy your DISCLAIMERS! :)
A :- Oh really??? So tell me now who the characters in my stories are... If you know all of them why don't you know for whom is the post "Love and me"...?
D :- Fine..forget it..  Arguing with you is just IMPOSSIBLE...
A :- Good you realized... :)
D :- You know what A? You're really special for me.You are the one who has given colors to my dreams...I wish I was with you right there... :(
A :- D, Just feel it and I'm right there with you... but if you "think" about it ,I am 600 miles away from you.. :'(
D :- I m bad at feeling,A... and I want to be with you for once.I want US to be real and not just VIRTUAL :'(
A :- Hmm..
D :- I really want this "600 miles" to be "JUST A NUMBER"... Someday perhaps we'll see each other..
A :- Hmm..
D :- Just a "hmm.."??? I thought our feelings were mutual..
A :- Which feelings D? Giving colors to dreams or falling for each other??? Just five minutes before you told me you were BAD AT FEELING...!!!
D :- I know I am a bit weird but you've brought some amazing moments in my life...
A :- Hmm..I'm special for you.I just wish I was the "only special one" in your life but I know I am not the only one...I guess you are not BAD AT FEELING.. you're just SCARED of FEELING what you already are...
Just ask yourself and you'll get the answer for whom is the post "Love and me"... :)


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I should not miss him but I do......!! :( :( :(

Read the relevant part here!

Reyansh claims that I am the one, after Yashri with whom he has shared everything...

I want to believe this but I can't.
It is more like I miss him all the time but he misses me only during lonely times.

It hurts when I call him up and he disconnects my call and texts me back----> "I am with friends.TTUL"...

Can't he talk even 2 minutes when he is with friends?

I am only an option in his life,I guess...

An option when no one's around, a secret sharer when everyone else is busy and just an ONLINE FRIEND!!

I am always there for him whenever he needs me,but when I need to talk to him - he is with FRIENDS!!!

I don't think being online friends comes with any such "conditions apply" warnings...Friends are friends..

I have better online friends than Reyansh,but somehow I keep going back to him inspite of knowing he cares only when no one else's around...

I met my best friend too ONLINE so I don't think it has anything to do with "online-offline" thing...

It is more about how he WANTS to treat me-How special I am or How special I am NOT...

It is more about just "SAYING" and "CLAIMING" to be good friends...and not about PROVING or SHOWING it...

Hmm..I think I should let Reyansh be on his own and sort out his priorities and have a straightforward conversation with him regarding this RATHER than blogging about it.

I should do the same too.. Even I need to decide what he means to me. Am I considering someone who considers me an option, my PRIORITY?

I need to introspect and ask myself whether I should walk away on being ignored like this or WAIT to be INSULTED...

I guess No!!! I should not be waiting for the day I get insulted ... and walk away MYSELF, taking into consideration the hints Reyansh has already given me lot many times...

I don't think I would be another "YASHRI" for him ...'cause Reyansh and my relationship has no place in HIS blog posts, his poems, his stories, his facebook updates OR EVEN HIS LIFE...

Reyansh-Yashri were well known among all the bloggers...But me and Reyansh??

I hardly matter to Reyansh...
Inspite of not being in "LOVE" with Yashri, she was all over his blog,once upon a time.People still read those posts ... BUT ME? Reyansh has nothing to write for *ME AND HIM*...

I should not be writing this but I have...
I should not be missing him but I do...
:( :( :( Or perhaps I miss the PERFECT GUY who I thought him to be...

This is the last post for Reyansh from my side...

"I still miss her..."

*Purely fictional*

Name courtesy for the guy's name :- My nephew!! :D
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It was yet another day when I was in some serious conversation with Reyansh. The topic was "Why do people walk away,Why do things change"...My favorite discussion topic and somehow the most disheartening too.. :(

I knew Reyansh's best friend Yashri had walked away from him at the time he needed her the most and when everyone[including me] thought they could never ever be separated....

No they did not have any fight and they were not in love too. She simply walked away to a new world without any words of goodbye/farewell.Atleast this is what I know!!!

I don't know if it's any different than this.I could never ask Reyansh "What went wrong between you and Yashri...?"

It was 2009 and I was not very close to Reyansh, not as much as I am today! :)

I had managed to know of Reyansh and Yashri's inseparable relationship by stalking Reyansh's orkut scraps,certain blog posts which were written just for THEIR amazing relationship and some of our common friends who shared Reyansh-Yashri incidents with me...!!

I stalked his profile 'cause I was kinda obsessed with his blog,things he wrote and I was somewhat infatuated by him.

I still am !! :D

I was tempted to ask him so many times- "Do you still miss Yashri...?" inspite of knowing the obvious answer "YES"...

That day I finally gathered some courage and asked him in the name of the topic of discussion and under that lame pretext!!!! :D

"You miss Yashri a lot,don't you?"

Reyansh did not even wait to reply--- "Ofcourse I do..."

He continued after a pause-"She was my best friend.She is still somewhere within me.She was with me during the time no one else was.She was the kind of person who could motivate me,inspire me to hear what my heart says,do what I liked to do.She was the one who persuaded me to write a blog.She was the one who made me understand what I'm good at.She has left a part of her with me.During tough times,I still think what she would have done if she had to face this or what she would have asked me to do if she was with me.I'm grateful to her for so many things.I'm sure my sweetheart must be happy wherever she is and whosoever she is with....She must be spreading smiles around in everyone's life just the way she did in mine.No one can ever take that place and fill the void left by her...And I hate to say this but I don't think I would ever be able to give the same place to you or anyone else.The role she played in my life,so what if it was just for 2 years ; and the place she had in my life,my blog posts, the poems I dedicated to her and the wishes I penned down for her-I cannot do it for anyone else..."

"Hmmm...!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

I was a bit hurt,upset and speechless.This conversation left me with few more questions...- "Why do we never value the person we have and cling on to the ones who don't.....Would Reyansh miss me if I ever walk away...?"
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He cares for me and loves me too...!!!

It feels AWESOME tonight and that is the sole reason why I'm posting this...

When I wasn't online,he called me up just to ask me "Where was I lost"...

When I deactivated my facebook account,he messaged me to ask me the reason...

When my phone was switched off and he couldn't reach me,he actually called up my best friend and sent me a message on gtalk.[My fb account was deactivated at that time.]

When I was not well,he called me up four times in a day to make sure I recover fast...

A facebook status message prank of me going abroad made him call me up immediately...

When I cried bitter tears in front of him,he wiped it with his brand new shirt and did not care if it got spoiled...

When I held his hand,he did not make that moment AWKWARD.Instead,he hugged me tight and made me feel a lot better...

And the best part...

When I told him "I love you", he did not FRIENDZONE me...'cause he felt the same way and he loved me back too...! :)
It feels great to know someone out there cares so much....!! :)